Saturday, July 30, 2011

The Animal Camp

Life always finds a way. For some, it was to our backyard.

If only animals could communicate with us. Maybe they do, in subtle ways that we understand only if we are sensitive enough to notice.

For as long as I lived in my home country, we've always had an animal of some sort taking refuge in our house, along with the abundance of children who would act as the care takers (myself and two other pals). They came in all sorts of sizes and colours and from all sorts of backgrounds, the animals I mean. And they always found plenty of love, attention (perhaps too much), shelter, food, warmth and safety in our home.

Tragedy hits not only humans; it happens in the animal kingdom too. The monsoons and winds wash away nests of birds and squirrels, while alarmed parents watch helplessly. Some cats and dogs get hit by vehicles and are left by the road side either to be run over again or to die slowly in pain. Some kittens and puppies, only a few days old, are snatched away from the warmth of their mothers, tied in large bags and thrown in the river. Some luckier ones are either thrown in dumpsters or are abandoned stealthily in backyards like ours. Some badly wounded animals are rescued from the tenacious grips of predators. Some orphaned baby animals cry their guts out for their mothers, who have fled out of helplessness and fear of humans. Others are rescued from the misery of physical abuse caused by my fellow human beings. This world is often too cruel to them.

Thalaya

One sunny afternoon, I was doing my usual rounds of garden exploration during a school holiday, when I saw a curious face pop out of a snake hole. Must be a snake, I thought, as it had a pink forked tongue. But I was curious so I stayed on to watch quietly from a distance. After a trying game of waiting, which 'he' lost, he came out of his hidey hole. He turned out to be a clouded monitor lizard. Our area was not known for this species of lizard so we can only speculate as to where he came from. Over the next few weeks, he and I got friendly, although progress was very slow. At first, he would only let me stroke his head, then slowly he would drink water out of my hand and finally, he let me pull him out of his hole and carry him. The slightest sound would send this dirt dweller in a scurry back into the hole and his sharp nails would leave me with scratch marks. Sometimes he would be gone for a long time, like a week, but he always returned. I would wait eagerly for him to pop his head back out. Eventually, he was no more. Maybe he relocated, or a dog killed him or a human killed him. There is a running myth that eating this lizard's tongue would make a person very smart and increase memory retention immensely. Maybe it was just another way of saying, nothing can cure stupidity.

Pepe

This orange shaded cow was named after a corn snack we used to like eating. Parallel to our housing scheme was a very remote village. Many villagers would trespass into the housing scheme we lived in, and bring their cattle to graze. These untied cattle would raid into our gardens and destroy entire plants, leaving many of the residents unhappy. While this was going on, we made friends with a little boy who used to bring his cattle to graze. We dubbed him 'Cow Boy”. He was not much older than we were and we enjoyed asking him a lot of questions on what he did. He used to give graphic details of how his female cows gave birth, among other stories. We also made friends with his cows. My mom was not too happy when we fed bananas (meant for us to eat) to the cows. Pepe was one of those cows, who seemed to remember us very well, even many years later.

Furball

One fine day, we were playing badminton on the road. Our pet cat was hunting for small prey nearby and the next thing we know, she had a wild rabbit's neck lodged between her jaws. Back then, I was against letting nature take its course and allowing a predator savour its prey. We jumped in, strangled the cat, tried to pry open its jaws and managed to pull out a shocked rabbit bleeding from its neck. The neck wound was not too deep and after a few days of care at our place, he recovered. We released him back to where we found him. It was a joy to see him hop away into the wild.

Barbie, Goony & Wooly

My sister used to work in a very beautifully landscaped five star hotel in an area renown for its wildlife. Once, the staff found an orphaned baby squirrel and handed it over to her as she was known for her kind ways. Barbie, went to work with my sister everyday, either hiding inside her hair or sometimes, sleeping shamelessly in the pocket-like spot inside her bra. She loved to eat muffins from the breakfast buffet spread. Sometimes, when my sister came over for the weekend, she would bring Barbie along so we can play with her. Soon after, my sister was called to another rescue mission. This time, two more baby squirrels were found abandoned inside a vehicle (the mother must have given birth in a hurry and fled when she realised there were too humans in the area) and they were handed over to my sister. She sent the two of them to us as she had a full time job to keep and already one squirrel to look after! Goony and Wooly grew up fast from a state of pinkishness to having pretty fur with their distinct markings. They fancied yogurt, rice and fruits. Our house looked like a mini-jungle, with branches and leaves fixed for their comfort and enrichment. Doors and windows were always shut so our two cats couldn't get in. The duo would steal my hair bands and handkerchiefs and try to make nests out of those. They loved to play hide and seek when we read the newspapers. They had the most adorable way of yawning and lifting its front foot when we stroked the chest. One day, in a freak of carelessness, a door was left open and they got away. We can only hope they eventually adapted to the wild.

Thinny, Swordtail & Fatty

After much begging and pleading, our mom finally allowed us to keep fish. The three of us visited the aquarium and picked one each. There was Fatty, Thinny and Swordtail. If I recall well, Thinny was mine. They lived in a big glass jar for quite a long time. Swordtail died and the other two made little fish and went on to eat them. We learned later that the small ones had to be separated from the adults till they were big enough not to be bullied. All went well, until the school holidays came and my friends went home for the vacation. I was admittedly careless, the jars might have been too dirty and all the fish died. It was hard to explain that to my friends when they returned. 

Froggie

There once used to be a small frog that would hop all the way from our indoor toilet, up the stairs and to the outdoors in the mornings. He would then, in the evening, make his way from the outdoors to the inside toilet, on the same route down the stairs, almost like he were a tenant of the house. We were amused by how piously he made his journey everyday. Sometimes he would stop at the stairs to entertain us, while we examined him closely or stroked it. He had the smoothest (and icy cold) frog skin ever! And those bright black eyes and the wide mouth... it was almost as if he were smiling at us!

Sumudu

This log squirrel (also known as a giant squirrel) was rescued by one of my uncles, again by chance. This little guy and his mother were captured off a plantation (they are considered pests and a delicacy in most areas) and taken to be someone's dinner. Sadly, the mother ended up in someone's plate, but the little one after a some convincing (as he was probably too small and not meaty enough) came to live with my uncle. My uncle in turn, handed him to us. Although a wild squirrel, we could not release it outside as it had not learned enough skills from its mother for survival. Several attempts to teach coconut-tree climbing failed when it succumbed to gravity he fell flat on the ground. We came up with the most natural habitat we could build inside a bedroom; bridges, obstacles and play things made with branches, twigs and leaves. Every day, we would find different fruits and flowers for him to feed on. We were all a happy family until a new Wildlife Act was passed in the country, prohibiting this type of species to be kept as household pets. So we had to give him away to a monastry, where I was promised he would be better off. Parting with him was a very hard thing to do to, we had shared so much of warm memories together. Many months later, I heard he was mauled by the dogs in the monastry.

Keli & Benzi

One evening, I was on the way to the nearby grocery store when I noticed a dog lying on the side of the road. Asking around, I found out she was hit by vehicle and unable to move. We would regularly take milk and food to feed her, as she lay on the side of the road. A few days later, she (Keli) started to limp around and made her way to the nearest house, one belonging to a 90+ year old grandma (a very tough cookie, who loved to chit chat) who was living on her own. We would still visit Keli afterwards with food and she grew very fond of us. Later, she had one fat pup, which she was happy to come show off at our place. She was ever so loyal to us for many years, it was almost as if she remembered that we once cared for her. I heard recently that Keli died, probably of old age. I still meet Benzi, her pup (now the size of a small cow) when I visit home for the holidays and she remembers me too.

Pini & her legacy

This pretty calico cat was accidentally discovered one rainy day, while a shabby old man was emptying her from a sack into a dumpster! My mom says she was only a few weeks old then. Pini came to live with my mom, who was living alone at the time, as all the other family members were scattered in faraway countries. She became the only companion my mom had for a long time. She had four generations of offspring; the fourth died out, the first and second generations grew up and left our home for greener pastures, as did Pini, although she still pays the occasional visit. She is fat as a pig now, thanks to a friendly neighbour who overfeeds her and lets her laze all day on their couch. Her daughter, Kitty from the third generation still lives with our family.

Fawn (yet to be named)

Dad with fawn
She is the newest addition to the animal camp. A fawn, injured and left behind by the pack. Living far away from home, we have to rely on regular updates from the parents to see how she is doing. Apparently, she loves to feed on fresh cows milk and dash around the house. She's even formed an alliance with Kitty: Kitty can have all the left over milk and in return, she would not claw the fawn's face! Releasing her into the wild remains doubtful without the herd around, as she is not even weaned. This type of deer is also protected by law so it is not legal to keep one in a house so she will soon be re-homed. [Afternote: Sadly, this little one died an unpleasant death, after being attacked by dogs and before a suitable home was found.]

Those were a few stories that left lasting impressions. There were many other birds, bats, rats, tortoises, cats and dogs which came into our lives and left.

Looking back, I'm thankful my family supported us in every adoption, rescue and rehabilitation mission we undertook, regardless of its outcome. Some missions failed miserably and we ended up learning to deal with sadness and loss. But all lessons learned and experiences gained have been golden.


Photographs (resembling actual characters) courtesy of Google Images.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

What good are your ideas, if you won't share them?

It's been an exciting day overall.

At work, I got picked as a co-editor to initiate a department newsletter (a great suggestion from someone else). Recently, they have been trying to involve the staff and get them to share good ideas in line with the Company's core values. It was a great initiative which saw many brilliant ideas come out from seemingly dull, robotic people. The effect of just two sessions of department meetings to discuss the team's ideas have turned out rather remarkable. The team has bonded, they are more comfortable around each other and watch out for each other. The quieter ones with insecurities, particularly with communication, have taken their first steps in overcoming these weakness.

So back to the newsletter. I had some experience with gathering small articles and supervising the different stages of a quarterly newsletter in my previous job. I didn't know I enjoyed so much, until today when I found myself scribbling away the layout of a 4-paged newsletter in a matter of 20 minutes. And we were given 3 weeks to complete this task. Of course, it will be subjected to the opinions and criticisms of various persons. But I can't wait to get this rolling! Actually, I am a bit too free at work these days, through no fault of mine. So anything that diverts from the usual workload gets me excited!

Without my Bumblebee, I now have to rely on taxis and the generous offers of family and co-workers for lifts. It has brought me back to a world I was not in touch with for a long time. I walk outdoors more, I observe people on the road more and might I add, I am more relaxed during my trip home. Driving is a stressful activity requiring alertness at all times, to make sure everyone being transported reaches home safely. I'm even considering trying out the bus one of these days! Thinking back, I can't believe my mother let me go alone on a public bus in my home country when I was aged 11. I had to beg her to let me do it, and she did take the chance and in doing so, planted the first seeds of independence in my head.

I was thrilled to finally have the blog address of one of my friends! Now, all 3 of you lovely people, the only followers of my humble blog, are bloggers!!!! And another friend, who I have been nagging to blog for over an year, joked that I have started a cult. No doubt I am eager to get inside the heads of my friends (not meaning to sound creepy), but the real reason I hound this is because I have so much confidence in your writing abilities and you all are good human beings with good things to teach the world and because I know it will bring you joy to have an outlet for creativity and imagination.

Today, I proved to myself that the working lady of the 21st century, while making traditional dosas out of an instant mixture, can chat with her friends on MSN Messenger/ Whatsapp, social network on Facebook/ LinkedIn, tend to her emails and catch up with her family at the same time. What she forgot was to keep count of the number of dosas she was eating and ended up feeling too stuffed after!

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Fire Starters

In Greek mythology, Prometheus is a Titan, the son of Iapetus and Themis, and brother to Atlas, Epimetheus and Menoetius. He was a champion of mankind, known for his wily intelligence, who stole fire from Zeus and gave it to mortals. Zeus then punished him for his crime by having him bound to a rock while a great eagle ate his liver every day only to have it grow back to be eaten again the next day. His myth has been treated by a number of ancient sources, in which Prometheus is credited with – or blamed for – playing a pivotal role in the early history of mankind. During the Greek War of Independence, Prometheus became a figure of hope and inspiration for Greek revolutionaries and their philhellene supporters.

The two most prominent aspects of the Prometheus myth – the creation of man from clay and the theft of fire – have parallels within the mythologies of many cultures throughout the world:

 The creation of man from clay

  • In the Babylonian creation epic Enuma Elish, the goddess Ninhursag created humans from clay.
  • In Africa, the Yoruba culture holds that the god Obatala likewise created the human race.
  • In Egyptian mythology, the ram-headed god Khnum made people from clay in the waters of the Nile.
  • In Chinese myth, the goddess Nuwa created the first humans from mud and clay.
  • According to Genesis 2:7 "And the Lord god formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul."
  • According to Qur'an, Allah created man from clay.
  • Mayan myth holds that Tepeu and Kukulkán (Quetzalcoatl) made the first humans from clay, but they were unsatisfactory.
  • The Māori people believe that Tāne Mahuta, god of the forest, created the first woman out of clay and breathed life into her.

 

The theft of fire

  • According to the Rig Veda (3:9.5), the hero Mātariśvan recovered fire, which had been hidden from mankind.
  • In Cherokee myth, after Possum and Buzzard had failed to steal fire, Grandmother Spider used her web to sneak into the land of light. She stole fire, hiding it in a clay pot.
  • Among various Native American tribes of the Pacific Northwest and First Nations, fire was stolen and given to humans by Coyote, Beaver or Dog.
  • According to some Yukon First Nations people, Crow stole fire from a volcano in the middle of the water.
  • According to the Creek Indians, Rabbit stole fire from the Weasels.
  • In Algonquin myth, Rabbit stole fire from an old man and his two daughters.
  • In Ojibwa myth, Nanabozho the hare stole fire and gave it to humans.
  • In Polynesian myth, Māui stole fire from the Mudhens.
  • In the Book of Enoch, the fallen angels and Azazel teach early mankind to use tools and fire.

(Source: Wikipedia)

Monday, July 18, 2011

Travel Blog: Musandam, Oman

Two weeks ago, I got the sudden chance to take a trip to Oman. Someone had bought two tickets from a limited period offer but her friend could not go in the last minute, so I was asked and I jumped on the opportunity!

Luckily, she asked me one day in advance, so it saved me many days' worth of hypertension in the form of nervous anticipation and excitement. I am never able to sleep well on the days leading to "The Trip Day". Back in the primary school days of class trips, I was afraid that I would oversleep and be left out! But now that I am older and have found digital alarm clocks quite reliable, it is more of a "OMG!! I can't believe I'm going on a trip!! OMG!! *faint*" or "Did I remember to pack everything???"

So early in the morning I set out with my stuff, the sun bright and hot (at maybe 45 degrees)! My friend with punctuality issues was late as usual. But we managed to flag a taxi and made it on time to the meetup point. We were actually early and the bus left nearly 30 minutes AFTER stipulated time. (Shuri, people usually tell you a time with a buffer level to cater for latecomers, it doesn't mean you have to go right on time...). Being the early birds, we grabbed 2 prime locations on the bus and made ourselves comfortable. Unfortunately, a bunch of 12-15 guys - same race, same age group - got in and started making the biggest racket, laughing and talking away loudly in their ethnic language. Now I've seen and been in too many similar situations like this, so while we had the chance, we shifted over to the other bus, with more cultural diversity and better behaved people. Turns out it was a good idea, even though we ended losing our perfect seats!

Mountains are a rare sight here. These are the crumbly sort of mountains made of sandy soil and rock flakes. Nothing significant grows on it.


 The drive through mountain-land.

At the port, getting comfortable on the dhow before sailing out.


About a 2-hour drive later with many camel sightings, we reached our destination: Musandam. I would not notice till after the trip, that I lost my specs somewhere on the way, maybe in the taxi, or the bus or at Macdonalds! We were immediately shuttled to a dhow (a traditional 2-tier wooden boat). The lower deck was occupied by the hooligans, so we moved upstairs. If looks could kill (and with the temperature as high as it was), we would have blown up in flames and died - what's with certain cultures who just would NOT stop staring, not even to blink :O Call me racist, but I find it a very disgusting habit. And no, it's not just the male creatures in one country doing this, it's actually ALL the countries located in close proximity near the Indian Ocean, with my wonderful country included. Retards, who can't tell a lollipop apart from a woman, I thought. My traveling companion took it quite well with her "Who gives a fuck? Let them stare" attitude.


The blue sea!!

The upper deck, with comfortable louge chairs for free tanning. No thanks, I'm brown enough ;)

Docked for snorkeling and swimming.

Stunning views of the fjords, overlooking the sea.


The trip on the dhow was very enjoyable. The sun was bright. The views were simply stunning. The sea was dark blue. The wind was soothing and made the heat a lot bearable. The world looked so beautiful. I was thrilled to be there. Crappy food was served on the boat. There were moments where I felt seasick. But I managed to keep the food down by drinking lots of Gatorade and chewing gum.

We docked close to the shore for 2 hours, where the "tourists" were allowed to swim and snorkel. There was nothing worth admiring in the sea bed. No colourful corals, only murky waters and coral-like structures covered in slime. No rich marine life that was worth looking at. So I got rid of my snorkeling mask and instead enjoyed swimming. Most people enjoyed themselves. Swimming gives the liberating feeling of being weightless. The oglers were busy ogling.

On our way back, the dhow once again anchored in the deep sea to allow the people to have some fun at fishing. I look down on the act, as it involves removing a innocent creature from it's natural habitat and killing it, just for the thrill of it. So I spent my time upstairs enjoying the scenery. Usually, this tour is known to have dolphins follow the boats, but we saw none. Soon we were back at port and we were once again ready to travel by land, back to the resident country. On the way we stopped at a gas station for a toilet break. And those toilets are definitely worth mentioning as they were unisex toilets, where no living creature would want to seat their asses. Goodness knows what infectious microorganisms it harboured.

Local architecture.

This country has the most interesting and creative roundabouts.

Funny signs spotted: "Royal Saloon" situated right beside "High Class Wedding". There was nothing of high class about it.


Back at the point of origin, it was dark. We were sun burnt, sticky, salty, stinky, hungry and tired. I find out I have lost my spectacles somewhere, and the shades were no longer helpful. I call home to find out my family members have gone on a long distance trip and I didn't have the house key with me. NOT a perfect end to an otherwise perfect day. I ended up following my friend to the hospital as she was developing a cough. After her appointment, we took a taxi back home, with a detour at Macdonalds to binge ourselves on food. My fries had no ketchup. Then I stayed at a neighbour's place, clearly troubling them late at night, until my family was back.

What a trip! I loved the change of scenery.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

The kid

I feel like a bad, selfish parent. I shy away from being asked to feed or watch over the kid because it inconveniences me. I mostly turn down his requests to come play with him either because I am tired, busy or lazy. I ignore his long list of "Why" questions or reply somewhat impatiently because he never seems to stop asking them. I promise to take him out on another day, when I have to go out with my friends and he tells me he wants to come too (most often, the promises are not kept). And just yesterday, on a gulity conscience, I bought him two toys (a kaleidoscope and a mini-pin ball game) to "make up" for not being the best aunt (when a few blogs ago, I criticised parents for attempting to "buy affection").

The funny thing is that, he doesn't even have to tell me how he wished I spent more time with him. His bright and forgiving face stands as a painful reminder of how selfish I am sometimes. All kids are helpless like that, however much the elders ignore, punish or ill-treat them, they run right back to them to feel secure.

So no, parenthood is not one to be taken lightly.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

The pen IS mightier than the sword

I overheard an interesting conversation about alcohol back on my way from work yesterday...... It started with two of them comparing notes on how much alcohol they could hold before they got wasted, with one saying 10 shots of cocktails or 6 shots of either whiskey or tequila. The other one who obviously could not hold that much, was in awe and tipped his hat off to her.Then the talk goes on to favourite types of alcoholic beverages. One said beer is the best. Another said wine tastes better. But all of them were in agreement that most other types taste like lighter fluid or gasoline. Then they spoke of what happens to people who didn't know their limits and tolerance levels. The most common thing was of course throwing up large quantities of gut contents (and one experienced person even mentioned it was not fun to be in the viscinity of someone throwing up). Another possibility is falling asleep or passing out and not remembering anything afterwards. Some others might giggle hysterically or get overly emotional. Then, there are the ones who loose their inhibitions and might try, for example, taking off clothes or harassing other folk.

Nuff said about that. o_O

I have figured 5 simple things that together, hypothetically, keeps me in perpetual state of contentment
1. Socialising (online and offline) with my closest friends
2. Tending to interests; music (even just listening to it), reading (inspirational things mostly) and blogging
3. Given responsibilities that will lead to beneficial outcomes for many and and afterwards being appreciated/ existence acknowledged (notice the high level of expectations)
4. Traveling to new places, preferably natural habitats like the sea, forests, mountains, etc
5. Knowing that I am safe around family

So there is really no wonder I can't jumpstart my engines these days to work towards long term goals and aspirations. And then I am a big fat lazy ball of cotton. *sigh*

Off I go to work, it's gonna be a shit busy day! BUT it's the last day of the week!

Here's a Gem, among the masses... a human being I deeply respect and idolise, especially after that speech. The write up of his lecture is totally worth the read.

http://www.espncricinfo.com/srilanka/content/story/522183.html

Monday, July 11, 2011

The Cultural Divide

They say people learn from mistakes. Sometimes it takes more than one mistake of the same type to learn.

This morning didn't start so wonderfully. For one thing, I lost my frameless spectacles while touring. So I wore my geeky black framed spare pair from University to work. I'm a self-diagnosed sociophobe but even that didn't have anything to do with the way people kept looking at my eyes when talking to me. It would have been a lot more unnerving to me if I attached a "SPARE SPECS" tag to the frame for those who wondered about it. So yeah, back to the point. I was called to a pre-audit meeting on very short notice. I was the last to enter the room, where the external auditor was introducing himself. I walked in with a jolly mood and extended my hand after introducing myself. Again, I caught several people staring at me ("Must be the specs, I thought"). He then passed on his business card to everyone present. Halfway through the meeting it hit me! This man was a Muslim, and I am in a Muslim country, 'Men species' and 'Women species' associate with much caution, and women NEVER initiate a handshake. I felt faint everytime I remembered it. Oh well. It isn't even the first time this happened! I'm pretty sure I got rejected from an interview when I went and extended my hand to a Muslim interviewer at the beginning of it. I distinctly saw that he was shaken after it. What to do? Even if one finds such small things ridiculous because of a different upbringing, one must respect the traditions in a country where one is merely a guest.

Facebook is an endless source of entertainment. Today I saw someone leave a comment on a friend's picture of her (adorable) pet guinea pig: "What breed of dog is this???"

Last weekend, I had a fantastic (unplanned) cruise along the beautiful of fjords of Oman. Details of this trip will have to be recorded later, when I have photographic evidence.

Also received a touching message from a junior today, which completed my day:

Happy birthday! Hope you have a really good one :):)
by the way, it's my graduation ceremony today! so happy that I'm successfully done with it! thanks so much for all the support you gave me at the start of university! really appreciate it all :D:D


Never thought I'd post a clip from a game like this on my blog, but here it is, beautiful and worthy of admiration.

Presenting....Alice (from a wicked Wonderland)!

Friday, July 8, 2011

Whatsapp???!

The good winds are catch up once again! I'm off on a sailing trip tomorrow. Yay!

Smart phones are the best invention since winged sanitary napkins (WHY the hell is it called a napkin???) Oh well, nevermind... I have been instant messaging with my friends and family from all over the world, thanks to Whatsapp! I try to strike a work-life balance while at work.

Just renewed Bumblebee's registration and insurance and I have 1 year of accident free driving on record. *pats myself*. I wanted to make it fine-free too, but that failed when I got one parking fine early this year . Seriously governments earn back all costs of roadside cameras and electricity for traffic lights just by collecting fines from idiot drivers, and probably make a huge profit margin too!

Sadly, we cant install hi-tec cameras in our country. There are plenty of people with brains that tell them to go steal such a sophisticated piece of equipment, just for the heck of it! So for now, it is good old-fashioned police uncles standing behind bushes with radar guns - the type with "erasable" memory" (meaning ones that can be erased with a small fee) :P.

The other day a colleague of mine asked me for walnuts from my nuts/ protein store at work (yes, I keep nuts at my desk). In return for those, she told me that I can take cigarettes from her pack ANY time I wanted. She KNOWS I don't smoke. Weird woman.

Recently while dad was visiting, I asked him if he wanted perfume when we were all dressed and ready to go out. He said, "Everyone around me wears enough perfume, I don't need any!". Today, I realised how true that is. I felt suffocated in the morning when 5 different people, cramped in one vehicle, wore 5 different perfumes!

Whaddaya know! This girl can actually sing! Wow, what an awesome sized bed :O

Social Privilege

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